In The Name of ALLAH The Almighty
The immutable Concept having over my valley.
ďMa Xohor Chumutcare hoiĒÖIt is the sentence which scares
the little kohled eyes. Turn the innocent red lips into pale and
break the series of dreams yet to be planed. This is the sentence
which puts the daughters of Hawa in perplexity who used to run
behind the butterflies free from any anxiety till yesterday. What
clandestine is hidden in this sentence which tends a daughter to
crawl on the ground even when she desire to fly in the spacious
sky. Letís listen to the dialogue between a frustrated daughter and
her ego when for the first time she listens to her parents uttering
these words. Because this is the preamble which leads towards
building up a new nexus through the bridge of an innocent
daughterís hands painted with Hinna.
Daughter: Hey lucky flowers! You will enjoy the vicinity of
butterflies but I left behind my innocence and I crossed the valley
of my childhood in the struggle of catching the colorful
butterflies. I will no more be here to tease you beloved, because I
am grown up now.
Her Ego: come on dude! Life is not limited to the valley of
childhood. There is a big world beyond this microcosm.
Daughter: but I donít want to come out of this tiny world. If I do
then all of my dreams will be ruined by the antiquated custom of my
ancestors. I really donít want to make the dreams dormant which I
just sow and which are still to be nourished.
Ego: keep your inane dreams in your subconscious mind, so that they
will remain dreams forever. Because the triumph which you are
dreaming for will never be in your grips.
Daughter: please set a position paradigm before you and see the
rapidly moving world by the eyes of my burning desire. Please let
us discover self Ėesteem and follow the assertion which I wrote in
the page of my book when for the first time I
tried to develop my personal statement.
Ego: Your parents are planning to put the yolk of responsibility of
a whole family on your shoulders and you are concern with your own
self. Wake up girl! Its batter to follow what your parents say, so
try to keep your notions calm and go forward with pacified spirit
as other girls do.
Daughter: Donít you want me look pretty?
Ego: Of course I do.
Daughter: But I am not a lily which is beautiful by itself, rather
I am a diamond which needs polishing before it sparkles. My skills
and potentials need to be nourished in order to break their
dormancy. I want to spread the alto of freedom and knowledge all
over the world. I want to enlighten my heart with the torch of
education. I want to drag out myself from the hell of ignorance.
Ego: Can you gain success without your parentís benedictions. Look!
I respect your desires and dreams, but the stupendous mountains,
the vagabond rain drops, the cool zephyr and the singing rivulets,
no one will provide you their endorsement.
Daughter: what crime I committed that no one is there from whom I
seek bolster against this carnage.
Ego: Please keep your interrogates with you and donít forget that
you are a daughter. You have no other option except vanquishing
your debases dreams which have no value in the eyes of our people.
Daughter: I will not remain sedentary rather I will fight against
this decadent rule if not for myself then for the posterity coming
Ego; Are you mad? How did you think to torture your beloved mother
whose kind womb cared you in your prenatal life, whose aromatic lap
protected you from the misery of winterís coldness and barbarity of
summerís hotness and whose soft arms worked as pillows for your
somnolent body. Will you be able to see your fatherís disconsolate
face or can you tolerate the tears coursing down your motherís
wrinkled cheeks after seeing your disparaging behavior?
Daughter: NO, noÖÖnot at all. Who am I to intervene my parentís
decision who elucidated my life with the light of their love and
kindness? They introduce me to the world, so they have the
authority to choose the pathway of my lifeís excursion. I will kill
my rebellious spirit in order to see an exotic smile on my parentís
lips. I will no more think of offending my parentís decision. I
will be vivacious by putting veil on my desire just for my parentís
Ego: I am really very sorry. I had no other option to persuade you.
Try to compromise with your wishes. I will always be there to
support your melancholy soul. May your life be shrouded with
happiness and enjoy.